My Lesson from Life today speaks of how scary life can be. I once saw a video clip interview of a Christian couple, Wayne and Tonya, whose teen-age daughter, Laura, was killed by a drunk driver. During the interview they recounted their thoughts and emotions as they received a call to go to the crash site, as they watched their daughter be pulled from the wreckage and loaded into an ambulance, and as they were given the news that she didn’t make it through the emergency surgery.
It was a painful and emotional video to watch. But that’s real life folks, not the scripted, fabricated dramas presented on TV as reality shows. Such tragedies can happen to any of us. But the good news for today is that the faith that brings us to worship on Sunday helps us cope with the disasters that occur Monday through Saturday.
Not only does our faith help us to cope with such tragedies, but our faith can also help others when they face such difficult times. But it’s not easy. I mean, what do you say to people who are going through what Wayne and Tonya did? How do you respond to some of the things that that couple thought and said?
As they rushed to the hospital, Wayne remembered being convinced, “I just knew it was going to be okay.” How do you respond to someone when that hope and confidence has been shattered?
As they re-told their story, one of the parents said, “This is not something that happens to a Christian family.” What do you say to that?
And long after the fact, Tonya tearfully lamented, “My baby’s gone. I can’t understand God’s thinking on that.” What words can we say that will ease that kind of pain?
Near the end of the interview, one of them said, “She did nothing to deserve being in an accident with a drunk driver.” Though true, what peace and comfort is there in that truth?
We can hear and say lots of nice things here in the safety of our sanctuary, but will those things make any real difference to us out in the world? Just four short weeks ago we celebrated the most important day in the life of the Church and in all of human history for that matter – Easter. However, the resurrection of Jesus from the dead does not guarantee that Christians will never experience tragic loss in their lives. The resurrection does not promise that we will be sheltered from all pain, suffering and even death. So, many people wonder, “What good is the message of Easter?”
What’s good about it is that the resurrection of Jesus from the dead gives us the peace, the hope, and the comfort necessary to go on living when tragedy does strike. It’s not a protection from tragedies such as death, but it does provide a way for us to overcome the sting of death. Though death may seem to win sometimes, the resurrection ultimately establishes Jesus as conqueror and Lord over death. That means that belief in the resurrection of Jesus gives us victory over death, too. It means that until we die, we have a living hope for now as well as the eternal future. It means that we can be winners over death.
To their credit, Wayne and Tonya said that after Laura’s death they tried to search the Scriptures to be able to get answers from the Lord. I don’t know what answers they ultimately found, but there are several passages that can give hope, peace and comfort to those who are willing to believe their message and cling to them in times of tragedy. One such passage is I Corinthians 6:14 Contemporary English Version. God will raise us from death by the same power that he used when he raised our Lord to life.
Our ultimate hope is that death will not defeat us, but that we will defeat death. Notice the verb in that verse – God will raise us from death. That’s not just wishful thinking or some uncertain hope. That’s a fact, a certainty. The same divine power that raised Jesus from the dead can work in our lives to raise us from the dead, too. Belief in that truth can make a real difference to us when death or some other tragedy shatters our lives.
Another passage that can give hope, peace and comfort to us is I Thessalonians 4:13-18. And now, dear brothers and sisters, we want you to know what will happen to the believers who have died so you will not grieve like people who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and was raised to life again, we also believe that when Jesus returns, God will bring back with him the believers who have died.
We tell you this directly from the Lord: We who are still living when the Lord returns will not meet him ahead of those who have died. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven with a commanding shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet call of God. First, the Christians who have died will rise from their graves. Then, together with them, we who are still alive and remain on the earth will be caught up in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. Then we will be with the Lord forever. So encourage each other with these words.
I Thessalonians 4:13-18 New Living Translation
Knowing that those who die believing in Jesus will one day rise again from the dead will not take away the grief and sorrow we feel at the moment a loved one dies. However, the hope and the assurance that the dead who believed in Jesus will live again can help ease the pain. Believing that there is life after death helps us move from sadness to joy. Believing in the resurrection brings the comfort that is necessary to turn our grief into peace.
The great hope of that passage from I Thessalonians is the understanding that death is not the end of the story. Because Jesus Christ came back to life, so will all believers, including those who have already died. Therefore, we need not despair when loved ones die or world events take a tragic turn. God has the power and the desire to turn our tragedy into triumph, our poverty into riches, our pain into glory, and our defeat into victory. As Paul comforted the Thessalonians with the promise of the Resurrection, so we should be comforted and reassured with that great hope.
Again, that message is not mere wishful thinking or uncertain hope. It’s an assurance. Romans 6:9-11 New International Readers' Version tells us this: We know that Christ was raised from the dead and will never die again. Death doesn’t control him anymore. When he died, he died once and for all time as far as sin is concerned. Now that he lives, he lives as far as God is concerned. In the same way, consider yourselves to be dead as far as sin is concerned. Now that you believe in Christ Jesus, consider yourselves to be alive as far as God is concerned.
“We know”, Paul proclaimed. Not we think or we hope – we know that Christ was raised from the dead. Because of that assurance in his death and resurrection, Christ’s followers need never fear death. That assurance frees us to enjoy fellowship with God and to do his will. This will affect all of our activities – work and worship, play, Bible study, quiet times, and times of caring for others. When you know that you don’t have to fear death, you will experience new vigor in life, even when death or tragedy strikes us.
We will die, and others we know and love will die, sometimes tragically. But because of Christ’s resurrection, we don’t need to live in fear of it for ourselves. That affects how we live our lives here and now. What’s more, death has lost its ability to master Christ and us. So, we do not have to live our lives enslaved by the fear or the effects of death. Instead, we can live our lives freed from such fear and enslavement in order to serve God and others.
We don’t have to live as people under the oppression of death. Instead, as the Apostle Peter wrote, we are people of a living hope.
Give praise to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. In his great mercy he has given us a new birth and a hope that is alive. It is alive because Jesus Christ rose from the dead. He has given us new birth so that we might share in what belongs to him. It is a gift that can never be destroyed. It can never spoil or even fade away. It is kept in heaven for you. Through faith you are kept safe by God’s power. Your salvation is going to be completed. It is ready to be shown to you in the last days.
Because you know this, you have great joy. You have joy even though you may have had to suffer sadness in all kinds of trouble. Your troubles have come in order to prove that your faith is real. It is worth more than gold. Gold can pass away even though the fire has made it pure. Your faith is meant to bring praise, honor and glory to God. That will happen when Jesus Christ returns.
Even though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not see him now, you believe in him. You are filled with a glorious joy that can’t be put into words. You are receiving the salvation of your souls. It is the result of your faith.
I Peter 1:3-9 New International Readers' Version
Often read at a graveside, those words of Scripture may not give an answer as to why someone innocent and young like Laura had to die so suddenly and so tragically. But it does provide an answer as to why bad things happen to good people. Troubles come to us to prove to us that our faith is real. And because our faith brings us salvation, faith is more valuable than anything else, even gold. Another thing about faith that is so valuable to us is that it enables us to have joy even through we may have to suffer sadness in all kinds of trouble. We can’t escape the suffering, but we can escape being beaten down and oppressed by it.
We will still suffer physically in this life. But the resurrection of Jesus promises us resurrected bodies that will not suffer or decay. The only real hope that helps us through the suffering and pain of this life is that we will have resurrected bodies that will not suffer.
Listen to what these words of Scripture promise us: Our dead and decaying bodies will be changed into bodies that won’t die or decay. The bodies we now have are weak and can die. But they will be changed into bodies that are eternal. Then the Scriptures will come true, “Death has lost the battle! Where is its victory? Where is its sting?”
Sin is what gives death its sting, and the Law is the power behind sin. But thank God for letting our Lord Jesus Christ give us the victory! I Corinthians 15:53-57 Contemporary English Version
These verses acknowledge that we all face bodily limitations, whether physical, mental, or emotional. But the Bible tells us that we all will be given new bodies when Christ returns and that these new bodies will be without disabilities or limitations, never to die or become sick. This truth gives us hope while we suffer in this life, for it assures us that what we might be going through now is only temporary. One day all pain and sorrow, all sickness and sadness will be gone, never to be experienced again.
Because of the resurrection, one day we can be winners over sin, victors over suffering, and conquerors over even death itself. Sin, suffering and death might hurt us and even knock us down for a while. But we have access to the power of God that raised Jesus from the dead. In that power, like a heavyweight boxer we can get up from being knocked down and go on to score a knockout over our foe.
Even though we still experience all the limitations of sin while we are yet alive, by the power of God’s spirit living in us, we can experience life on God’s terms, which is spacious and free. One commentator wrote, “Once we have said yes to Jesus, we will want to continue following him, because his way brings life and peace. Daily we must choose to center our life on God.”
Choose today to center your life on God. Choose today to believe in the resurrection of Jesus. Choose today to accept the gift of eternal life and the living hope that God offers you through belief in Jesus as Lord and Savior. Choose today to be a winner over death. Choose today to be a winner over grief, despair and hopelessness. Choose today to be a winner over sin. Choose today to be a winner in life. If you’d like to make that choice to be a winner today, then I invite you to step forward t any point in the rest of the service and claim your victory here at the altar rails.